I created this website to help others going through a divorce feel less victimized by the person they are divorcing, as well as the legal system. Divorce is hard. I think I aged ten years during my three years going through this process. I will share my story but I want to be clear, I am not bashing my ex-husband. I am trying to forgive him, and I can't do that if I continue to hold on to the pain and resentments from our marriage and divorce. I am strong, Blondie. You will be too.